before the baby arrives
This is not a registry and not a complete list.
It’s a working record of what we actually found useful in the earliest months, when everything is new and decisions feel unusually permanent. The list is intentionally selective, shaped by daily use rather than anticipation.
This page exists for those moments when a grounded reference is helpful, especially when advice feels endless and contradictory.
a short list for the earliest months
These are the items that earned their place through daily use and helped make early days more manageable.
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A safe, everyday sleep space
A reliable, consistent place for overnight sleep and naps that removes uncertainty and supports rest in the early weeks.
A portable sleep option
A lightweight secondary sleep setup that allows the baby to nap comfortably outside the main sleep space and gives caregivers flexibility early on.
A dependable breast pump
A well-established pump that supports regular use at home and provides consistency during an otherwise unpredictable period.
Simple, compatible bottles
Bottles that work seamlessly with pumping and feeding routines and are easy to clean, replace, and use daily.
A formula you feel comfortable with
A thoughtfully formulated option to support feeding choices, whether used occasionally or as part of a regular routine.
Tools for feeding cleanup
A small set of cleaning essentials that make bottle and pump washing feel manageable rather than burdensome.
Dapple Baby Bottle & Dish Soap
A dedicated changing surface
A wipeable, comfortable pad that creates a consistent changing station and makes frequent changes easier day to day.
Wipes you can rely on
Gentle, effective wipes that work for diaper changes and quick cleanups throughout the day.
A contained way to handle diapers
A simple solution that keeps frequent diaper disposal discreet and manageable in shared living spaces.
A flexible diaper bag
A well-organized bag that supports daily outings and appointments without feeling oversized or overbuilt.
A primary stroller for everyday use
A durable, adaptable stroller that supports daily walks, appointments, and longer outings once you begin leaving the house more regularly.
A travel-ready stroller
A lightweight, compact stroller designed for quick folds and easy transport when travel or tighter spaces come into play.
Bugaboo Butterfly Travel Stroller
A safe, versatile car seat
A highly rated, baseless car seat that works well for taxis and rentals and integrates easily with stroller systems when needed.
Clek Liingo Baseless Infant Car Seat
A soft carrier
A comfortable, supportive carrier that allows for hands-free movement and closeness during long days at home or out.
Artipoppe Zeitgeist Baby Carrier
For those who want a more complete reference, we’ve shared a fuller working list of everything we bought or used during this period.
You can view the full list here.